Written By: Trina Moitra
This
is a slightly controversial topic so die hard cynics and the practical beagles
may bow out of reading it early on. And those who decide to stick around…you
are forewarned that your life may change forever.
There
was a time a few months ago when I was going through an anxious patch of time.
Even though projects were plentiful and money was flowing smooth and easy, I
would lie awake at night fretting about things and how some fine day I was
going to lose everything I had built with elbow grease and hours of typing!
Now
any trained psychiatrist would have informed me that I was going through
mid-life crisis. Before you picture me as a hag with salt and pepper hair let
me elaborate: Everything has a life span, believe it or not your career does
too. Some ventures tend to have a longer shelf life than others. But the bottom
line is the fact that nothing lasts forever. Or to paraphrase that old adage
slightly: Nothing seems great forever.
When
you settle into something, nice and cushy, you get accustomed to the rhythm of
the entity-be it a relationship or a career venture, your ever busy and
mischievous human mind makes you binge on a smorgasbord of anxiety and tension
as an alternative to the frenzied action that is now missing. Why? Because we
are our own worst enemy! Homo sapiens have struggled for so long and for so
many different goals that being on our toes and constantly harried has become a
part of our genetic and sub conscious make up.
So
all freelancers out there if you are wondering why your motivation is depleted
and the shine has left the day- you are suffering from mid-life crisis of your
career. This tends to haunt writers a lot more frequently than other
professionals because let’s face it…writers are sensitive, profound people who
read too much into portents and presages! J
Pardon
that little detour, so there I was unhappy, feeling dumb and losing my sarcasm.
That was when a very inspired woman who has achieved a lot in her life
forwarded me the link to this amazing Facebook page- The Law of Attraction. I
know that after The Secret everybody has been evangelizing the Law of
Attraction but I was a bit of an ignoramus where positive thinking was
concerned. So the principles seemed wondrous to me. I was enchanted with the
concept of affirmations- positive present tense first person statements which
are supposed to plant the suggestion of affluence and plenty in your mind. And
I fell to practicing them with gusto.
And
you know what…three weeks into my new regime of positive thinking- I felt more
depressed, defeated and lost than ever before. Negative thoughts are like
silent childhood companions for most of us (except for those who have dogs) and
valiantly fighting them off every day takes its toll. I don’t know how many of
you reading this post have tried affirmations, but I doubt if any of you have
had any consistent level of success with them. Because they are frankly overwhelming
and quite dominating with their relentless overdose of strained forced positivity.
Our mind simply rebels.
And
my rebelling mind was causing me a ton of problems- including lack of sleep and
motivation. I had managed to make matters worse for myself. But thankfully, I
think on some level I was tuned to the universe even in my broken state because
I discovered a recording by Marilyn
Jenett. God bless this woman because she I think is the only one in the
saturated Law of Attraction industry to have any real understanding of how the
spiritual energy actually works. Anyway to cut a long story short, I learnt and
in some cases improvised upon knowledge to come up with three facts and
practices which can help any writer land more jobs. Why writers? Because we are
sensitive, profound people! Remember?
·
Forget the how and enjoy the wow. Identify the financial goal you wish to achieve
for the year and then stop fretting about how you can manifest the same! How
will this help? Well when you stop obsessing over details, you start seeing the
big picture. You will find yourself noticing more opportunities when you leave
the tough task of making your dreams come true to the generous universe. Try it
please. It really works. It’s like searching for your spectacles high and low
and then finding them perched atop your head when you finally decide you are
going to relax and look for the damn thing later on.
·
Your jobs are not your source of abundance. Now I can see you smirking. I know you feel I
have completely lost it. From SEO tutorials to hokum…how the mighty fall. But
it is true. The source of abundance and in this case monetary abundance is not
your freelancing gig. It is just one of the many channels through which money
can flow to you when you recognize the true well spring of all plenty- the
universal energy or God as some people like to call it. How will this help?
When you are confident that you have many conduits waiting to fill your cup
with abundance you start valuing your talents more. You have the confidence of
refusing that $40 job because it doesn’t respect your efforts. You pick out the
best and you go with the flow because hey, a power much greater than you is now
steering your career.
·
Be generous and give. Last but not the least let me introduce you to
the concept of tithing. All the benevolent religions of the world preach
charitable giving. But how can you use tithing to your advantage? When jobs
seem to dry up, instead of hoarding every penny you have and sinking into
abject misery, gift someone near and dear to you with a spontaneous offering.
Do it from the bottom of your heart and without worries. Do not think of your
shrinking bank balance; imagine you have enough to tide you over for months. In
short overcome your “lack mentality”. When you can successfully practice
tithing, you will find that within 24 hours, you will get either a confirmation
on your pending assignments or a new job offer altogether. I will not go into
the dynamics behind this law, but it works like charm! Do it today, right now!
And see the miracle manifest.
It
has taken me around 300 hours of listening to recorded calls and scouring
eBooks to come up with these three facts. And they are non-negotiable. Like
gravity will make you fall from a 30 storied building and break your bones if
you do not obey it, similarly these laws will attract all the right things into
your life once you practice them correctly. There is no escape. There are no
half measures.
Being
religious and being spiritual are two poles apart. Religion says “God is
Omnipotent”, spirituality says “You are God”! And that sentiment is not
tinctured with arrogance. It is the truth. Delve a little deeper and try to
connect with the energy flow of the universe. You will find your acumen
improving and your intuition flourishing. And ultimately you will become a
better writer.
This
was an unscheduled post because I felt I had to share these insights with you. Do
some deep thinking right now because too many people are running helter skelter
doing all the wrong things and pushing their dreams further away. If you want
any guidance, feel free to write in to me at tmoitra@elancemobilizer.com. And that stands for your freelancing queries as
well. If you love where I come from, go to www.elance.com/join/trina to experience the passion yourself.
Till
the next post…stay positive and abundant!
Trina Moitra is a certified Angel card reader and
an avid law of attraction practitioner. She features in the top 0.09% of
writers of the US based portal Elance.
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